Reference Letters, Recs and RIFs, Oh MY!

It’s the last semester of high school, your daughter has been accepted to her favorite universities and has made her selection. She will begin her college education next fall. Then, in passing, she tells you that she wants to go through recruitment and join a sorority. You break out in a cold sweat and have an internal panic attack. This is an area you know absolutely nothing about, and you have no clue how to support her through the process. You know she needs to have references but how do you find them?